MY Nephew

Today 20 August 2008, my nephew (the eldest) passed away because of cancer (brain). He had undergo an operation on Friday 15 Aug and coma until today after magrahib about 8pm. The heart stop beating so the doctor take out all the alat pernafasan. At that time me, my youngest sister, my second sister and his mother (third sis) go for Maghrib prayer then we read Yassin. About 8pm his mother went up ( 5 floor Ward 4-HUKM) she said mamat already pass away. We said no the nurse is cleaning his bed. Then we wait until the nurse finish doing something at my nephew bed that closed using the curtain.

When the nurse came out , The nurse said yes my nephew had passed away around 8pm, his heart stop beating so they get the clearence from the doctor to remove all the life saving equipment. I was stunned ...but the doctor already agreed to take off the bantuan pernafasan on Friday if my nephew did not respond. The doctor already said on saturday that they can't do anything to help my nephew coz the cancer already spread in his brain.

At age of 22 my nephew ended his journey in this temporary life. I did not cried i just baca yassin as many times as i can while waiting for the jenazah to be send home.

I write this as i came back from the HUKM arrived at about 12 midnight. I feel so tired but cannot sleep. Tommorrow after zohor they will buried him at Ampang cementary. Tonight his father take the jenazah to surau near their house.

To recall on what happen, if u have child do take care of them, give them loves. Let them feel appreciate and parents should not argue and try to avoid separation/divorce coz this will effect the children. Be a role model to ur children not to burden them with ur problem.

I pity my nephew sometime but now i don't know coz Allah always give the best to his HambaNYA.

I think father is the most important person in a family there for marrying the wrong man surely will not just give bad impact to yourself but the most pity person is your children. if the father is not faithful and did not perform what ALLAH or follow Al-Quran and Al-Sunnah... most prob. the family will failed and the cildren will suffer.

I will always remember my nephew since he is the second grandchildren in our family...I pray that Allah will place my nephew in the best place there...Al-Fatihah.